Wednesday, 19 March 2008
Fashionably Free
Sunday, 16 March 2008
Have a Cup of Coffee, Espresso Yourself!

Office buldings have coffee stalls for a reason and not mainly because the boss would want a cup every time he walks into his office. It's a It is a necessity for people who need to work hard on routine work and at times during extended hours to get the job done. Tight deadlines are the easiest underlying problem to cause people feeling the urge to take that first sip of coffee, in order to keep them awake.
Signs That (You and) I Maybe a Coffee Addict
- Waking up, coffee is the first thing on my mind.
- I prefer coffee flavored candy to those colorful fruit mix candies.
- Coffee has taken over chocolate's place in my mind.
- Have at least 5 different coffee mugs (one for espresso, one for latte, one for cappuccino, one for mocha and one for Vietnamese coffee).
- Started panicking, as I found out that I just used my last stock of coffee.
- Have writen an article about coffee.
- Know the various type of coffee beans and can differ them by their taste.
- Wondering why there's no coffee-scented perfume.
- Often stuck my nostrils in a freshly grind coffee beans, just to be able to smell the lovely scent.
- Defend coffee when people started to blame it as the main cause for not being able to sleep.

Tuesday, 11 March 2008
Loving Love
~Friedrich Nietzsche~

The above line is taken from When Nietzsche Wept, a movie tribute to Friedrich Nietzsche, one of the great thinkers of all time. Yet, this post will not specifically discuss the movie. Instead, we will explore more on love. Sound cheesy and lame? Yep! Am I being all weepy and mellow? You bet!
So what’s the sudden interest on this subject? Need I say more? As I consider myself a normal human being, I myself have experienced the so-called love thing. I consider myself quite generous as I have over and over again falling in and out of love. The teacher, an uncle’s friend, classmate, the university lector, the security that guarded my office building (yes!), a fellow activist, a newspaper reporter and on and on. Believe me; I could go for the complete list and gagged you with amazement. It’s a long list, but hey… I am 32 and the love thing sometimes and very often last in a blink of an eye (chuckle).
My friend yelled at me: Girl, that’s not love! You’re crazy. Maybe I am, but so do you. If time is the parameter and if we go through the list once again and you ask me how many of the list lasted at least one year, I can say they’re about 4 out of 15. How many lasted at least 3 years and it will be only one person. If emotion is the main parameter, I would dare say only one person make it to the top, which I still feel very emotional around. Yet, if you ask me which one is my true love, I’d say none. Zero.
If that is the case, most of you would push me and say, you're dead inside! Hell no! Death is not on my wish list, at least I hope not so soon. The people on the list played quite an important part in building my inner feeling, during harvest times. After that, the feeling usually went back to my old self. I consider myself not a monotheist in term of love. I love being in love and will try and seek chance in order to get the slightest emotion.
Let’s go back to the very definition of love, "for love is the seeds of happiness" (Ghazali).

Essentially, love is a tendency toward pleasure that related to our senses. Each sense seek something that can give pleasure. Our eyes seek something beautiful in vision, our ears seek music. This kind of love also experienced by animals, yet human have sixth sense, which is perception inside our heart and this perception is not possessed by other creatures. With it, we become aware of the beauty before our eyes. As my own experience, I believe love has been violently misunderstood. We immediately assume ourselves as being in love toward someone.
That my friend - is the very nature of love.

Saturday, 8 March 2008
Aa Gym dan Poligami


Perempuan dan Teknologi, Hubungan Benci Tapi Cinta


Teknik merupakan kata dasar yang dengan sukses menjauhkan perempuan dari teknologi. Belum lagi saat di bangku sekolah perempuan identik dengan mata pelajaran keterampilan seperti memasak dan menjahit, sementara laki-laki dengan elektronika atau komputer. Fakta menunjukkan bahwa murid laki-laki cenderung lebih dipercaya oleh Guru untuk menjadi ketua kelompok yang terkait dengan subjek seperti komputer. Perempuan lebih terlibat dalam pengumpulan materi atau teori, bahkan menjadi sekretaris. Belum lagi, ada faktor stereotype dalam istilah seperti "game boy", yang sengaja atau tidak, telah menciutkan minat anak perempuan untuk sekedar melirik permainan tersebut. Kenapa tidak "game girl"? Atau "game kid"?
Terlepas dari kondisi (yang entah sengaja atau tidak, sudah terkondisikan) di atas, pada abad ke-21 ini yang namanya perempuan, bukan lagi makhluk gaptek yang ‘takut’ terhadap teknologi. Tengok saja samping kiri-kanan kita maka akan kelihatan para ’cetek’ (cewek haitek) sibuk dengan ponsel, PDA, laptop atau media juke box-nya. Tapi apa ini jadi jaminan bahwa perempuan bukan makhluk gaptek? Kenyataan membuktikan bahwa perempuan kadang masih makhluk gaptek, tergantung pada kondisinya. Ke-gaptek-an ini memang kontribusi dari berbagai faktor seperti pendidikan, tempat kerja dan pergaulan. Namun, jika akrab dengan teknologi satu apakah lantas menjadi akrab juga dengan teknologi yang lebih ‘berat’ seperti mesin mobil?
Kenyataan lain adalah masih banyak cetek-cetek yang dengan ahlinya mengutak-atik gadget-nya tapi dengan entengnya juga ‘menyerah’ ketika dihadapkan pada kondisi ban mobil yang pecah, mobil mendadak mogok dan komputer yang mendadak ‘hang’. Ada juga sih perempuan yang piawai mengutak-atik mesin mobil atau membedah komponen komputer. Tapi mayoritas perempuan lebih suka menjadi end user dan memanfaatkan fasilitas after sales service. Dengan kata lain, perempuan bisa mengubah dirinya secara cepat dari sadar teknologi menjadi gagap teknologi, tergantung pada kondisi dan jenis teknologi yang dihadapinya. Ketika mobil mogok di jalan, kenapa menyia-nyiakan dispensasi yang melekat selama ini dan berkotor-kotor dengan oli mesin? Telepon saja pacar atau bengkel untuk mendereknya!